Thursday, February 12, 2009
Mistake #25 You Keep Him Hanging On...(woo, ooh!)
And you probably do think it's his fault. Remember when you point a finger, three fingers are pointing back at you. It's your fault, because you are probably railroading the guy to stay in the relationship with your non-important "problems" and your overactive "hormones". Hormones? Really? So you're going through stuff most women go through at 55? Please. I'm not buying that crap, so why should you subject that to him? Let him out and make it seem like it's your idea. You'll figure out who are the keepers and who have just wasted the prime baby making years of your life. If you're mature enough to date, then you're mature enough to stop complaining to your girlfriends and get out.
Well, let's just look at the ramifications to this situation. Let's just say, for kicks and giggles, your obtuse lack of intelligence allows you to stick with him another 3-4 years and finally he's pressured from you, his family, his friends, the Church, and Obama to "make an honest woman of you." You really want to know why 50% of all marriages end in divorce? Well, it's stupid crap like this. If dude is not making an effort, you're not worth it to him. Did you hear me? You're. Not. Worth. It. I hope those are some sobering words to your sad relationship, because apparently you're not listening to reason anywhere else. Spoiler Alert: And if you think things will turn out like Jennifer Aniston and Ben Affleck in He's Just Not That Into You, then maybe I should pity you instead of ridiculing you.
If you're the doormat type, email me because I got some dirty shoes with crap on the bottoms. If not, drop his ace like a bad habit.